The negativity..end it

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There are good days and there are bad days.There are good times and bad times..

There are good people and there are bad people.Hang on.There are no bad people.Those can be rebranded as good people in bad circumstances.Good people with bad experiences.Their so called nature could be result of the circumstances which they have faced.
Some one who is crying or whining all the time is just reacting to the bad circumstance he has been through.Some one who ever depressed is suffering from lack of hope.Some one who is insecure or jealous just wants to be just like you.Someone who is angry is just trying to safeguard his side of being preventive before he breaks down into tears.And then there is the most common person who is ‘pulling you down” from your big dreams who is actually being over protective about you since his dreams were shattered to pieces
So does that mean the person who is forever happy and cheerful has never experienced any kinds of setback? Or do you think he ors he is naive or as the world  say is ”childish”.
Well in my opinion,the person who is cheerful has seen more setbacks than anyone else.But its just that he chooses to live his life in this particular way.He choses love over  fear.There are so many negative emotions in this world but the base of all this is just the biggest  emotion “FEAR”.Fear can drain your entire energy in a matter of minutes.All the above emotions are by product of fear.
Everytime we fear something we send out a negative emotion.As they say “ comfort zones are the most dangerous places to stay”We fear the unknown,unexpected and calculate our fears based on our past experiences.No forecast is foolproof and all situations change everyday.Its our duty not just to run away from fears but to enter them face them and remove them from your life.Be happy about being able to overcome it and then fight with it.
See the difference you make to the world and what world makes to you

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