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Why friends rock

Top 5 reasons why girl friends rock 5. They are always game for shopping 4.They can understand the difference of walking with and without heels 3.You dont have to tell them to pick up the plates when they are dining at your place 2.Party means talking and giggling and not  just drinking 1.They will listen to you even if a cricket match is going on Top reasons why guy friends rock 5. They can just listen without analysing 4. They will not cry or grumble if you dont reply to their text 3. They can be reliable for geeky advice on apps and machines 2. You can sit and joke around with them and they wont judge you 1. They are less drama

Life Mate

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The mehendi woman had almost finished both my palms and started off with my feet. It was my wedding in 2 days. But I wasnt as excited as a bride to be should be. I felt at times that someone opened me n ripped a piece of my soul . I was in touch with him but hadnt seen him for months now.Arnav has been my friend since so many years.And probably loved him only him.. Or whatever those emotions were. We used to be happy with each other just by looking into each others eyes and sharing every detail of each others heart. Even when he dated Vishakha and told me all the details. He and Vishakha dated for 5 years and were in a steady relationship. I had my own bad luck with relationships. I probably might have searched for my Arnav in every man I dated. Arnav broke up with Vishakha and refused to believe in love again. Vishakha had dumped him as she had no guts to go against her parents. My Arnav was very much broken hearted.He really had loved her and lost her. I could not see him this way.Ye

The Night

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It was like a dark night.. Which dint seem to getting over..but there is always a hope of a dawn breaking..there was a hope but there was no dawn.. I was walking in this forbidden forest. The night was getting darker and darker..fear was rising.. What if the night never got over..what if its dark always Todays spring will break into summer.. Summer to autumn and autumn to winter.. Wht will happen in a winter night..i might die of cold or worse get handicapped or eaten by a wild beast I could only see the north star..  I took its guidance.. N started walking.. I broke my shoes and continued walking.. Then my practical self emerged out and told me.. He was laughing at me He said'' you chose this path right?..now enjoy it..i gave u an easier path but you wanted to chase your dreams..dreams never come true.. They are illusion'' I got scared.. Really.. I Cried a lot.. He stood there laughing at me..was i wrong? I thought I walked further crying sobbing.. I could hear the tig

A bientôt Varun

Tanvi rushed to the airport   towards the immigration counter. She got chills as she realised she was not going to come back to mumbai.She was going to miss mom dad, bhaiyya bhabhi, nani, isha...too many people and ofcourse Varun Varun was a confidante, friend, philosopher, guide. She remembered every bit of time spent with him. Right from the first day in medical school to the first surgery they did together. And from having a cheesecake on her birthday to dropping her home late night after Neha's wedding and getting reprimanded by her parents. They were like 2 pieces of heart. Stuck together, completing each other, talking about each othets dreams and pulling each other up. Her mind was full of thoughts for the next couple of hours as she waited in the lobby.'' Your attention please.. Passengers are requested to board the flight from gate 6 to Paris Charles De Gaulle Paris.. She always wanted to go, to master in neurosurgery. And this internship was all she wanted her who

In Pursuit of happiness

Happiness is waking up and knowing you have a holiday from work  Happiness is opening your window and finding drop in the temperature Happiness is getting up and having a cup of tea  Happiness is finding a ₹100 note in an old purse Happiness is meeting a very close frd for lunch after a long time   Happiness is knowing you have people in your life who love u and care for you Happiness is listening to your favourite music on radio Happiness is switchîng TV on a holiday to discover Harry Potter movie playing Happiness is just being yourself

Roller Coaster

I never sit in roller coasters . I end up getting sick and throwing up. Right from my childhood.  But I guess life makes each one of us sit in what I call roller coasters of extreme emotions. Happiness ,anxiety,love, stress,enthusiasm,insecurity, optimism,confidence, fear, hope,despair,sense of achievement,amusement,pain... So many to name What if all come to you in a span of a day.. Or an hour.. Or worse in a minute As good as rising and falling on a roller coaster sitting on the first seat. 

Love, commitment

Commitment without love is like an empty bottle. Love without commitment is like a river, flowing in full speed Live your life in such a way that you go to the river and fill your bottle with the water

Language of God

The best things in life are free.. The sunshine, breeze,raindrops, green grass, aroma of the soil,the deep blue sky, chirping of the birds, waves of the ocean,hug from a friend,smile of a child,twinkle in the eyes of a dear one...and still we cry about not having enough Wake up.. Leave ur wallet at home ..nature is waiting for u.. Its through these signs that God speaks to us..to our soul

Dream big... Fly

A very beautiful thought  We all know the law of gravity..it never fails .. If you are old or young, rich or poor, tall or short, fat or thin.. It applies to everything... And everyone.. Whether you are in India or Europe or USA or Japan.. You will be on ground however high you jump.. You will be on ground Still Planes fly in the air..how is that? Because someone dreamt it .. someone had the guts to dream and turn it into a reality Believe in your dreams.. Work hard.. Make them come true

हिरवा

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आषाढ सरला बरोबर तो कोसळणारा पाऊस पण गेला श्रावणाची चाहुल लागू लागली धरणी जणु नववधुसारखी हिरवा शालु मिरवू लागली

Miracles in love

She was waiting at the station. One last time she wanted to see him before getting married to the boy of her parent's choice Her heart was beating faster and faster. ''Revaa ..''she heard his voice from behind. It was his voice. Most comforting voice in her life. She always felt relaxed when she heard him. All her tensions got solved.. She always loved him and he too..perhaps..ahh..actrually yes he did.. She turned behind to see him''Pa-arth,I thought you went.. where is your luggage?.'' "She dumped me Revaa.. For a another guy..She said she loved him..and she said yes to marry me only because her parents were forcing her to do so.." "Paarth..are you okay? Wait lets sit down.." she said She looked lovely..her henna was all the way till her arms..girls dont  normally leave the house after Henna but nothing could stop her from seeing Parth " Reva..why did she do this? she realised really late...the man she loved

Walking in the rain

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Walking in the rain... It has different meanings.. When you are sad and alone..walking in rains adds to the melacholy But when you are happy and it rains..its beautiful When its pouring and you are listening to music and walking it can be great When it drizzles and you are with your family enjoying chaai and corn it can be splendid When its pouring and you are with a group of friends..splashing water,laughing having fun its beautiful But when you are with that "one" special person...under one umbrella..its pouring..you dont even need to talk..only the slightest touch of each other makes you feel special..and anything else on earth doesnt matter..the world doesn't matter ..because you have your world ..own little world under that umbrella....no one else even exists

You will win

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I fall , I run I slip, I jump I lose, I win I cry, I grin From caterpillar to a butterfly I metaphorphosize From ashes and fire I fall to rise Dont worry oh soldier..  You will win Just keep moving Success is waiting

Leben slanger schick salsschatz

Klaus: Victoria is wunderbar, but she is not my "Lebenslanger Schicksalsschatz." She’s my "Beinahe-Leidenschaftsgegenstand"… it means the thing that is almost the thing that you want, but it’s not quite. That is Victoria to me. Ted :How do you know she’s not "Lebenslanger Schicksalsschatz?" Maybe as the years go by she’ll get "Lebenslanger Schicksalsschatz…ier " Klaus :"Lebenslanger Schicksalsschatz" is not something that develops over time. It is something that happens instantaneously. It courses through you like the water of a river after a storm, filling you and emptying you all at once. You feel it throughout your body, in your hands, in your heart, in your stomach, in your skin…have you ever felt this way about someone? Ted :…I think so. Klaus :If you have to think about it, you have not felt it. Ted :And you’re absolutely sure you’ll find that someday? Klaus :Of course. Everyone does eventually…you just never know when or where. C

Dont give up!!

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I saw him losing out last year.He was tearful.He wanted to win.But he lost. He so much wanted it.But they say,you have to taste defeat before you taste victory and thats what happened Today 12 months down he came better prepared and the luck was on his side.But more important was he did not give up.He chased.There was a time in the second set when he was losing out to the oppnent.But he kept chasing.It was his "Never say die attitude" and sheer will which got him back in the game. The sun was shining bright in the sky and the whole nation was cheering him.He kept his eyes on his goal. He smashed his opponent.He won ..he created history..there were tears in his eyes..once again..those tears of joy Well life knocks us down so many times..but life again gives us second chances..what we can learn is to try again..and again..and never give up.Once we realise that we CAN achieve what we want,the magic of miracles start.Just keep trying..keep chasing..impossible is nothin

The Other

“A man runs into an old friend who had somehow never been able to make it in life. "I should give him some money", he thinks. But instead he learns that his old friend has grown rich and is actually seeking him out to repay the debts he had run up over the years. They go to a bar they used to frequent together and the friend buys drinks for everyone there, When they ask him how he became so successful, he answers that until only a few days ago, he had been living the role of the Other. "What is the Other?", they ask. "The 'Other' is the one who taught me what I should be like, but not what I am. The Other believes that it is out obligations to spend our entire life thinking about how to get our hands on as much money as possible so that we will not die of hunger when we are old. So we think so much about money and our plans for acquiring it that we discover that we are alive only when our days on earth are practically done. And then it's too late.&

The Potter mania

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We loved Harry Potter and his friends. Didnt we? Well Harry grew up and so did we.What we read as children teenagers and now as adults changed our perspective of looking at the book.It just started as a bespectacled boy who is a wizard and it went all the way till the battle of Good and Evil. Harry made us laugh,cry and we connected with his world.We rode brooms and also went through floo network.We all tried" alahamora" for unlocking the doors and also thought of a character from Harrys world for each of our friends Every time the weather is good I think of playing quidditch .Everytime there is traffic I want a broom.And everytime i see  a barn owl,I think its Hedwig.We all have wondered what would our patronus be. The Fear of Dementors is nothing if you can use a patronus charm effectively.I bet we all tried with our toothbrushes saying "expecto patronum" Besides all this, we learnt a lot from Professor Dumbeldore and his quotes. A few of my favourites

To every single girl

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To every single girl out there, So now I think the reason you are reading this is because you are single. And tired of looking out, or just out of a broken relationship which trust me was not worth your tears,or just wanting to stay single. But deep down inside you there is a part, a small tiny part which still believes in having the'one' in your life I know you are tired of listening to taunts from old aunts who think you will be spinster the whole life. Or also sick from getting worthless hopeless proposals from losers which Pammi aunty or a matrimonial site suggests. You are really facing a lot of pressure from parents and family and that jolt of panic when your best friend who is 2 years younger delivers her second child.You suffer humiliation when someone says the good ones are already taken and you will have to compromise on a fat, dumb or worse a insensitive desperate fellow just because your 'age' is passing and 'biological clock' is ticking 

The other part of me

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Its been ages that I know you. Its been centuries that i have loved you Still i lose and find you in these million a life We are much more than a man and a wife Your heart cuts, my eyes bleed My thoughts are only yours to read The hundreds of oceans in my heart Again and again we meet and part The world laughs when i talk of you But I know you are real and true The twinkle in your eyes , your smile and your charm My tresses flowing on your arm My ears listens to the beat of your heart Upon your chest when i lie .. World apart Fingers interwined , hearts locked We make the whole world shocked You hear when i dont utter a word, a letter You touch me and make my heart flutter When you make love to my soul just by  lookin into my eyes I know our love is true gentle and wise I believe I am a part of you A feeling that comes to very few Still i lose and find you in these million a life We are much more than a man and a wif

Why people dont smile; why they actually should

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Most people wont smile to you,most of them and the ones smiling are often considered weird, shallow or mentally ill or simply too childish. We think  being serious is being matured. The society makes us think that way So why is this that we dont smile? Most people take it as a defence mechanism. We dont smile as we feel what if the other person doesnt smile at me? I will look like a fool. Let me not smile  Another thought process is a smiling person appears silly and immatured vis a vis a straight faced no nonsense person. We dont like to be mocked at.. Do we? Last and worst reason is we are so drowned down in our fears that we forget to count our blessing and smile. The world is a beautiful place , we need to have the right perspective. To listen to the song of birds, to feel raindrops on our skin, to see the colours of nature and to feel the love of our dear ones.  We all are blessed.. So smile next time when you step out After all world is a beautiful place ,

Crazy Symptoms

Sometimes i stop breathing..for a minute or so My heart misses a beat.. For a second There are butterflies in my stomach I feel high as if I am drunk I smile every now and then My cheeks turn red I feel the blood rush in my body             ..oh God..what is this..     70% discount on leading brands What a feeling!!

A drop of rain

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A single drop of rain .. On the parched throat of the earth.. As if she was waiting since ages..the aroma of the earth post the first few drops.. Then a few more drops.. On the dry earth and she actually starts smiling. Her heart pounds faster and faster.. The rain kisses her with every single drop of water. He is not afraid to express his love anymore  And then the passions goes out of control.. He starts pouring in all his passion.. Not in drops and drizzles, but in cascades.. Simply cascades and she feels as if there was never a Summer.. It was just an illusion.. an illusion

Its beautiful day

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Well she knows its a beautiful day..the day she has have been dreaming of since she was a little girl. The venue is sooo well decorated.. With blue and white roses .. Blue and white satins.. Everyone is sooo well dressed..Her mom is wearing her best saree and dad is looking so dashing in his kurta salwar. Her Didi and Jiju look as smart as ever.. More in love than in their own wedding.And her Bhaiyaa and Bhabhi are newly married and blushing... in their own worldThen there are those lovely bridesmaids .. All her dear friends.. Cheering giggling.. Laughing teasing her with pranks.. And the well wishers.. To bless them Here she enters.. Nervous .. Anxious..bursting with joy.. Watching every step she takes.. Her bangles make the sound.. Her anklets tinkle on the rhythm.. The turmeric yellow coloured saree is reflecting on her peaches and cream face.. She loves her dark henna.. Its aroma..on her feet ,palms all over her wrist ..over her elbow She doesnt see anything though.. Not eve

I am a rock

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I once went to the seashore to watch the sunset. There I sat on a rock.the waves were ushering in and out. 'Dont you feel threatened?' I asked the rock ' Well , I would be lying if I was saying no. ' she said to me' "Who doesnt get scared.The waves splash against me every moment. I sometimes feel they can wash me off. But I stand solid . I dont move and dont allow the waves to affect me.Apart from that there are so many storms. Windstorm, hailstorm,hurticanes, torrential rains. All try to break me , wither me. But i stand solid. I dont let others break me. I am not just a rock but a piece of earth difficult to break And even if I break into pieces , i keep them close. When the time comes I gather all the broken pieces and become me, myself"

Soar high in the sky..

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Soar in the sky Fly really high Distance doesnt matter Fly high as you can Let go of all bondages Let go of all limitations Trust the sound of your soul Play your best possible role Feel the breeze on your face Dont ever slow your pace Let not others pull you down Soar above every city every town You dont need wings to fly Only courage is enough to set you high Soar in the sky Fly really high

Simply Love

The most amazing part of love is it is difficult to describe,beautiful to experience and even more beautiful to give Someone has said it right. Who so ever loves with an intention to be loved back is wasting his time. Unconditional love can be the most beautiful thing to experience. The problem starts when we try to impose love expect it from the same person Love happens at the most unexpected time with the most unexpected person when you are too busy looking for it. When you care about yourself , you fall in love with someone.And when you start caring about others, someone falls in love with you

Wounds

Every pain has a lifespan. It is impossible to grieve over the same wound after a point of time. After a point , every wound heals. Sufferings end and we could be just dragging our pain only because we are used to it The lifespan of a suffering or a pain could be different for every person. But no pain is everlasting. Further dont let your wounds transform you into someone you are not. Move on and look ahead. Life loves you back if you love it

Give Peace A Chance

There is always a way when things look like there's no way. There's a way to do the impossible, to survive the in survivable. There's always a way. And you, you and I have this in common. We're inspired. In the face of the impossible, we're inspired. So if I can offer one piece of advice to the world's foremost neurosurgeon. Today, if you become frightened instead become inspired. -           Issac to Dr Derek Shepherd (American Sitcom - Grey’s Anatomy)

Secret Letters to the Monk..who sold his Ferarri

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A simple summary which I thought I ll make to easy brief the book up

Intuitions

I listen to my dreams and intuitions. When I do, things seem to fall into place. When I do not, something invariably goes awry. I still feel the Masters around me. I do not know for sure whether my dreams and intuitions are influenced by them, but I suspect so Brian Weiss, Many Lives Many Masters

Love and Drugs

Just a fleeting thought came to my mind while reading Paulo Coelho's novel ..very random though but holds true.The feeling that love gives you is crazy..absolutely crazy..you want more..Its like a drug which you get addicted to..below is an excerpt from Paulo Coelho's Novel...hope you enjoy It's risky, falling in love." "I know that," I answered. "I've been in love before. It's like a narcotic. At first it brings the euphoria of complete surrender. The next day, you want more. You're not addicted yet, but you like the sensation, and you think you can still control things. You think about the person you love for two minutes, and forget them for three hours. "But then you get used to that person, and you begin to be completely dependent on them. Now you think about him for three hours and forget him for two minutes. If he's not there, you feel like an addict who can't get a fix. And just as addicts steal and humiliate themselves

There is never a vacuum

There is never a vacuum When you break a relationship , you are just making a way for a better one. When a friend goes away to a different land, some one else takes that place. You make a new friend. People never leave you, they just replace the earlier ones. So don't get frightened by changes. Accept them, move on There are better times to come than the ones you have seen

Do You Love Yourself?

I have found that there is only one thing that heals every problem, and that is: to love yourself. When people start to love themselves more each day, it's amazing how their lives get better. They feel better. They get the jobs they want. They have the money they need. Their relationships either improve, or the negative ones dissolve and new ones begin. Loving yourself is a wonderful adventure; it's like learning to fly. Imagine if we all had the power to fly at will? How exciting it would be! Let's begin to love ourselves now. Here are 12 Commandments to help you learn how to love yourself: 1. Stop All Criticism. Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive. 2. Forgive Yourself. Let the past go. You did the best you could at the time with the understanding, awareness, and knowledge that

Enroute 2013

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Pheww..the year just flew by. Just realised its 2013.I never though it will come so fast.I remember 2003 and 1993 very well. Time is such a wonderful concept.Makes you digest the hardest failures,get over the worst heartbreaks,heals the worst wounds ,but if you are happy, you feel it was just yesterday 2012 had some turning points,some new concepts.Friends parted,some got married ,changed houses,some left for better life,some found new jobs.The vacuum was immense initially,but sooner I made some new friends,who were different from the earlier ones,yet same .Apart from that ,joined new courseslearnt new dances,visited new lands. In short I closed a few doors and opened some new ones.Learnt from my mistakes but made some new ones.To summarize many dream were achieved, a few were not .But still very happy about the fact that the World did not end and here I am alive and kicking writing to all of you. Have a happy 2013