Inverse Paranoid

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*How to be an Inverse Paranoid?*
By Ashwini Chube

"You are too ambitious..It wont work...try to be practical..you cant do it" Is this all we hear from those around us? Then how do we chase our dreams? How do we believe in the world full of skepticism

After recently meeting Jack Canfield -I reread an article by him telling us to be inverse  paranoid in the pursuit of our dreams.In short adopting Pronoia in our life.But how do we do that in today's world full of unhealthy competition, negative beliefs and frustrated co workers.

The concept of "Pronoia" or "Inverse Paranoia"  was mentioned by Dr. Fred H. Goldner of Queens College in the 1980s. Pronoia is nothing but the opposite of paranoia. A person experiencing pronoia feels that  the Universe conspiring in their favour and for their good

Here is my guide to the step by step process

1) Look for the opportunity in everything.As if it is an opportunity sent for you in pursuit of your dreams to take you to the biggest gift destiny has to ffer
2) Believe in yourself.You have to do that.No one knows you as well as you yourself
3) Find friends, companions or people who are highly motivated and positive.It isnt worth spending time with skeptics who pull you down and laugh about your goals
4) Read inspirational books , atleast 1 book every month.You can always read on your commute to and fro work
5) Get inspired by the life of legends who have made it big inspite of difficulties.

The World needs more of 'Pronoia' or 'Inverse Paranoia' .Imagine if everyone starts thinking this way. Wouldnt world be a better place?
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Ashwini Chube

About the Writer 
Ashwini Chube is a Corporate motivational speaker- trainer,Access Bars Facilitator ,Reiki Master, Life Transformation & wellness coach , Zumba Instructor and founder of Unicorn Insight Trainings 
Log on www.unicorninsight.com for more about Trainings with them
Facebook page : Facebook.com/ashwinichubeofficial

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