You are enough

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You are Enough!!

Valentines Day and truth about Self Love

By Ashwini Chube

It’s important to understand what self love is. Self Love isn’t some fancy word .
Most people prefer to ‘mock’ the concept of self love . They don’t even know what it means. For many self love means eating a big dessert full of sugar and saying I am treating myself ..infact the sugar may be doing more self hatred to you than love. The fact that we seek something external to feel loved itself is a wrong notion.

It’s amazing to have loved ones in our life but note that if you don’t love yourself enough it will reflect on your relationship with your significant other and rather than addressing it internally you ll just keep blaming them. Some of the most happy n healthy couples have ample self love as the base for their relationship

Love truly comes from within. Whatever is happening from outside is only a mere reflection of the way you are treating yourself.

Ofcourse we were not taught life skills like - self love, coping with loss, heartbreak, grief or even knowing how to process emotions while growing up.

All these unhealed emotions show up as physical diseases in our bodies if not handled . We gulp down pills to feel better and address only the symptoms but the root cause doesn’t heal. And then we call it Chronic disease . What if disease was an illusion?
Wonderful authors like Louisie Hay ,Sonia Choquette,Dr Wayne Dyer and Anita Moorjani have established it with facts n figures and proof that self love can heal everything.

99.999 % problems occur because we are not kind to ourselves. Every time something goes wrong we self blame. We sabotage ourselves and that negative self talk in ingrained  in us so much in us it becomes difficult to deprogram and reprogram us to be kind to ourselves first

Today on this Valentines Day promise to be kind to yourself
- Stop any kind of negative self talk ..learn to appreciate yourself
-Stop comparing yourself witn others ..each one is on a unique journey and you are at the right place at right time
-Stop Self victimisation..you are super powerful and you have the power within you
- Dont be afraid of being judged or being labelled as selfish. You deserve everything you have been asking for
- Finally gift yourself something (in addition to gifting your partner) today

Only love 💖 is real ..everything else is an illusion coming from the place of separation

Thank you to all my coaches for teaching me the value of self love. It is the base of everything in life

Happy 365 days of love ❤️

Ashwini Chube
Transformational Trainer - Wellness & happiness coach
Motivational Speaker
Reiki Master
Access Bars Facilitator
Author
www.unicorninsight.com
Facebook.com/ashwinichubeofficial

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