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Perfection & Perfectionism vs Mastery

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#coffeecubiclecabin Perfection is a myth. Perfectionism is constant Stress. Are you trying too hard or being too critical on yourself? A study I have been doing on asking professional adults age group 24-60 – how do they treat themselves if the commit a mistake : 90% said they are very harsh and critical on themselves and feel they deserve to be punished. Do you know this kind of internal talk is equivalent to injecting poison in your body.Yet most do it because that is only considered as a right .However – Perfection is a total myth Are you a Perfectionist? What is Perfectionism? Perfectionism is an inanimate definition which makes us believe in ego more. It is the voice of fear which makes us believe we necessarily need to meet some manmade standards in order to be happy and successful – failing which you don’t deserve happiness or joy. Most perfectionism comes from childhood conditioning and the worlds around us. We are born flawless as children – but as we grow up we get...

Goa is more than parties booze and bikinis ( part 1)

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#Wanderlust #traveldiaries Goa trip with your childhood friend.. Early morning flight..and then road trip in the most comfortable cars to the northern most Arambol beach and Southern most Palolem beach.. and all beaches in between..time to do some yoga and meditation at Morjim Reading some book in the sunshine at Ashvem A drive down the country side to see hills n coconut groves of Quepem Savordem Shiroda Zambaulim among others Bumping into Mumbai friends..whom you did not get time to Meet in Mumbai for almost 6-8 months..and spending a day chilling with them !! Visiting temples and rekindling childhood memories of time spent with my Grandfather and family in temples especially of Shantadurga and Mangesh ...receiving so much warmth and love from localities who tell me ' you smile and talk exactly like your mom' Beautiful divine darshan at Mangeshi and Aarti at Shantadurga mandir Food Fiesta at local restaurants savouring tasty seafood pampering my typical GSB tas...

Unicorn Cafe - The Magical Powerful Meetup

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Thank you for    your presence all the awesome folks who joined in for the meetup on 19th Jan 2020.Yeah 11 women graced us with their presence on our first meeting in the Unicon cafe.  There was so much to catch up on and I was so overwhelmed by the knowledge that was shared by these amazing women. We had so many different participants right from a dentist to a pastry chef- from an entrepreneur to a home chef and from a digital marketing specialist to a software consultant ..yoga teacher,a story teller and so many more. Each person passionate about their work and personal life. The Meetup was with a theme of Law of Attraction. We spoke on the basis of Ask Believe Receive. And then we discussed some basic questions regarding its application.  I summarised the learnings from our first meet- here are my top 11 for all of you  24 hours are less: Our Pastry Chef Neha rightly said when you love what you are doing 24 hours will always be less.Having...

21 days of success - day 6

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#day6 #21daysofmagicaltools #21successstories The World is currently based on fear. People call this fearful illusion a ‘reality’ and think there is no way to escape it. They believe they have no choice and it is necessary to know that it cannot be avoided. But always know you have a choice to choose what you want to attract in life Fear of diseases, Fear of War,Fear of Poverty..Scarcity...so on and on. People are absorbing fear of others like psychic radio receivers and feeling as if it is their own fear. 99% of thoughts feelings emotions do not even belong to us !! Within every grown up adult is a fearful little child who feels scared. The main reason for fear is the connection between the child within you and the adult within you is lost. The emotional and decisive part of most of us are disconnected. Most people who claim have no emotions or feelings have shut their inner child. On the other extreme - those who are too impulsive and feel stressed worried anxious a...

21 days of Success- Day 4

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#day4 #accesssconsciousness #21daysofsuccessstories In the world where people say there is lot of negativity going on - and most people feel scared,helpless,cynical and pessimistic- we need to know that there is so much good available. The only thing you need to do is choose it. A Quick story of my client- who was stuck in a foreign land with phone battery gone dead in the country where they did not speak English. A little skeptical and a lot helpless Nayana (name changed again to keep identity safe) was really worried as she did not know what to do to reach hotel. All of a sudden she remembered a few tools of access consciousness and started using them on trial and error. She also started her prayers and since was also an Angel Therapy student - she prayed with all her heart Within 3-4 minutes she found a taxi and an English speaking taxi driver whom she says ‘appeared out of no where’ . He safely helped her reach her hotel room and she said “everything was so quick and ...

21 Success Stories - Day 3

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#accesssconsciousness #21daysofsuccessstories #day3 In Today’s post we are going to talk about Richa (name changed) who had some papers stuck before she was to fly to the US for further studies. Also she had misplaced a marksheet. Her mother who is my client was feeling helpless when she came for a session. And on top of that she was all time being told by everyone who been there done that - the system would take atleast a month. And that was a ‘reality’ which she had to accept We did some clearings .Gave her a few tools and helped with a few energy flows. And in the next 4 days miraculously she got the misplaced papers. Her stuck papers came along and the process got expedited.Not just this - she could process her entire procedure flawlessly. And within a week she was ready to fly (yes) She calls it a miracle and Magic❤️ Have you been told - certain procedures take‘stipulated time’. Or somethings like government jobs or procedures will take longer. People won’t support etc...

Sarcasm - Do you need to reconsider kindness?

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#coffeecubiclecabin  #mentalwellness  Sarcasm at Workplace and in Relationships  Do you know- People who are Sarcastic and are so called thinking they are ‘smart’ or ‘super intelligent’are actually angry, insecure, or cowardly. This was as per a study by Psychology Today . Contrary to what the internet may sell - Sarcasm Fundamentally,    is a cover. It’s used to cover anger, envy, or inadequacy that, without the anti-sugarcoating of sarcasm, feels too forthright.  The origin of the word sarcasm derives from the Greek word “sarkazein” which literally means “to tear or strip the flesh off.” No doubt Sarcasm is only used to belittle someone. Despite smiling outwardly, many people who receive sarcastic comments feel put down and often think the sarcastic person is a bully or overall just a j**k Sarcasm traditionally means saying opposite of what you want to say and then either saying “ just kidding “ or even making a straight fave....