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Mood Shifters

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Mood shifters and the 'Law of Attraction ' When you are happy you ll attract your desires fast. Manifestation is instant. This is because happiness attracts happiness. Your vibrations bring you closer to what you desire. So you will say, " how can i be happy if I didn't get the promotion or was stuck in traffic or just had a heated argument with my boss?" So here is a trick. After any such event which made you feel bad or sad or upset you can use a " happiness switch"  Have you ever walked in the scorching sun at midday for an hour soaring and perspiring at 36 degrees celsius and then reached home to switch the Air Conditioner on and felt instant relief. How was that possible? You were sweating about 10 minutes ago and it was too hot. So how did you manage to feel comfortable    within 10 minutes? It is simple.. You turned the air conditioner on and things changed.  Similarly, you have the remote control to your air conditioner of...

3 years to Unicorninsight-If you can’t find your ideal job go create it

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3 years ago as I was not getting the exact kind of job as a Trainer which I was looking for as prospective employers gave me all weird reasons of not having experience .. bad markets .. too much weather problems .. money issues ..bla bla bla I had 2 choices - To go back and cry that the ‘reality‘ is bad and my dreams are impossible Or - Do something out if box for my middle class mind : become an entrepreneur I created the job overnight by becoming an Entrepreneur. Remember Unemployment is the mother of Entrepreneurship. If you have quit or even lost a job - it is not that you aren’t good. The Universe trying to take you to your true destination Its was midnight I was talking to my bff Monica about playing with this idea of starting on my own instead of waiting for some one to offer me a job as a trainer. And she said “wow ash kar na. Mag tar tu entrepreneur hoshil” We kept on talking till 2 am in the morning and discussed all possible names for the company from  as m...

Are you listening to yourself or others?

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Strong Vs Weak  ( Please note all names of the characters have been changed to keep their identity secret) There is a trouble in some fundamentals currently. Most of our earthlings have not been taught to decipher strong vs weak in current world. What amazes me more is the definitions seem to have reversed under the disguise of being a responsible adult. Not able to understand what I am saying?  Ok let me give you examples Example 1: So last week I met a client for coaching and card reading -who was dealing with a very difficult situation as she was having issues at her workplace primary because she hated the job she was doing . Anjali (name changed) is a software engineer working with one of the biggest software companies and earning well. However she doesn’t enjoy her work. And she never did. Right from day 1 she did not like it.  when I asked her why she chose that job -she said it was because of parents wanted her to do that and being a ...

Quick Read - Being in Tao

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Received this beautiful message a forward from. A friend. Worth reading There was a great drought where [Richard] Wilhelm lived. For months there had not been a drop of rain and the situation became catastrophic. The Catholics made processions, the Protestants made prayers, and the Chinese burned joss-sticks and shot off guns to frighten away the demons of the drought - but with no result. Finally the Chinese said, ‘We will fetch the rain-maker.’ And from another province a dried up old man appeared. The only thing he asked for was a quiet little house somewhere, and there he locked himself in, for three days. On the fourth day the clouds gathered and there was a great snow-storm at the time of the year when no snow was expected, an unusual amount, and the town was so full of rumours about the wonderful rain-maker that Wilhelm went to ask the man how he did it. In true European fashion he said: ‘They call you the rain-maker; will you tell me how you made the snow?’ And the...

The Wise Man Said by Priya Kumar

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“Belief Hope Faith Love Energy - They are as contagious as doubt misery hate drudgery. Your connection your people will set your mental makeup  The Naysayers will do their rounds.. keep your connection with the positive people stronger so that they cant steal your hope,your life and your future” Priya Kumar The Wise man said One of the Finest book I read in my life is the beautiful Wise Man Said by Priya Kumar What a masterpiece! Thanks to my Bookmarker Club friend Aparna Kunde Kowli I got this book out of my shelf to read .Had got it in 2017 that too authors signed copy exactly 2 years ago .  But every book comes to you at the right time. In my ever hectic non predictive schedule I sneaked a few minutes to read this book to unwind and boy I must say it is phenomenal  In my Frangipani Retreat I carried the book along and told my participants to carry any book of their choice too as a part of “ Me time” activity  PS:Me and my wonderful partic...

Monday Blues - Can you do something about it?

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“Uff its a Monday morning... I hate Mondays.. Why do I haveto wake up and go to office?” So many woke up to this thought. Did you? You are not alone. The truth is you are trained to complain for years together and still not do anything about it Monday after Monday the same story goes on and there are tonnes of jokes on Monday blues and how pathetic Mondays are. People at Office water coolers, Cafeterias make that sad face and greet each other with a frown. Come on we are grown ups we are sad inside that it is a Monday but we have to be practical and live with it. Because that is how it is People just complain about Mondays . But do not do anything to make a change. Because they believe they can’t . And if you ask them why cant you change -And the answer is always -I have responsibilities - I have children and their education -I am married and have a family - I am not married and have to build my money - I am a single parent -I have a housing loan - I have a car loan -I a...

The Power of Prayer - of asking the Universe and Surrender!

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Post becoming an entrepreneur - My no two days are similar .I must say I have no routine . So there are days I work for 15-20 days at a stretch and there are days I am lazing at home and sleeping on a weekday. Yesterday on a Friday as I was about to finish a full huge word file ..all of a sudden - there was a problem with my Microsoft word and the command which appeared on my screen was ‘Word is encountering a problem the data may be lost ‘ Well -the first instant was obviously to panic.Also because it got me the my memories of investment banking days when many times my machine used to konk off. I used to panic get irritated and used to blame the system,external conditions. In a moment I went into “oh f*** “zone  But now - 5 years and many lessons later,instead of panicking and falling into the old paradigm I simply chose to deep breathe. Several thoughts came to my mind “what if I lose the data” “ what if nothing it’s saved” “ I have a workshop tomorrow morning “ ...