To every single girl

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To every single girl out there,

So now I think the reason you are reading this is because you are single. And tired of looking out, or just out of a broken relationship which trust me was not worth your tears,or just wanting to stay single. But deep down inside you there is a part, a small tiny part which still believes in having the'one' in your life
I know you are tired of listening to taunts from old aunts who think you will be spinster the whole life. Or also sick from getting worthless hopeless proposals from losers which Pammi aunty or a matrimonial site suggests. You are really facing a lot of pressure from parents and family and that jolt of panic when your best friend who is 2 years younger delivers her second child.You suffer humiliation when someone says the good ones are already taken and you will have to compromise on a fat, dumb or worse a insensitive desperate fellow just because your 'age' is passing and 'biological clock' is ticking 

Well there is a guy. Just waiting for you. As much as you are waiting for him.Somewhere out there. He is dying to meet someone like you. He too has been looking out without any luck. Or has invested his feelings in a girl who was not worth it and hence broken up. He is trying to cope with all of this.He has dreams too. He wants to be successful, prosperous and happy. He too wants to liive his life. He has his own dreams, aspirations and every time he dreams he wants you next to him cheering him up
He too wants to tour the world , not alone but with you. Yes he does. He wont admit it now but he surely does.

There will be a day, sooner or later when you will be with him.By his side. You will wake up next to him. Make him tea and breakfast. He will read out the newspaper and comment on what the government should be doing or how wonderful yesterdays match was
You will discuss your finances with him and will support him in all his tensions.You will cook clean work send kids to school, pay the bills and he will be  busy but supportive. 
You will shop for groceries, food, furniture. You will watch movies curled on couch. You will laugh and cry together.
Then you will have those long talks even about the smallest things. And then you will make love..kiss and sleep in each others arms
There will be tough times..difficult situations but together you will face it.
And will grow old and grey in each othrrs arms
You will have to have the patience to wait, belief to see him and love to shower him. My gentle request is wait for him and keep your eyes and heart open. 
Every moment should be experienced.. As you are worth it

Love,
Your lovely friend

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