When you pretend to love

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Every time you pretend to love, you impoverish yourself more and more.
Love has great potential to enrich your life. But if you are just playing a role, pretending to love, it's only going to poison you.
Because you are teaching yourself that it's just a game, ...and slowly but surely you will lose the capacity to open in love.


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