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Jab we met..My philosophy on life

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I have watched this movie over and over again.Loved everything right from dialoges to scenes ,from music to the actors and the costumes.I think everyone would agree with me that there is a lot of positivity about this movie.I liked Kareena's character which is very vibrant and vivacious and which teaches us many things 1)Do things that make you happy. Aditya has a passion for singing and music but he doesnt bcos he thinks its waste of time.Keep time aside everyday for what you love to do.Be it 5-10 mins.If you like music enjoy it.If you like to read ,pick up a book and read it for 5 mins before you go to bed.If you like to dance,just do it.If you like to cook,make a dish.Find time for it.Remember happiness is all about picking up time to do what you love 2)Fall in love deeply,madly..dont think of being hurt..just follow your heart: Geet enjoys every moment  of her life in love with Anshuman.She doesnt think of the consequences if he rejects her.Its not always necessery that o...

Love isn't a decision, it's a feeling

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Neha was waiting for Varun at Mumbai international Airport.No he wasn't coming back.He was going to USA  forever.He was working with a huge software firm in California and now had a house too.Neha saw him get off his car.The same guy who always made her smile.Who did her homework in school.Who helped her shop for birthday.The same guy who gave her advice even when she did not need.He looked nice in his white tshirt and jeans.He looked smarter with the jacket on.He wasnt alone today .Arundhati was with him.It was her first time to USA ,first time abroad rather.She had to leave everything back home post her marriage to Varun. "Hey Neha..there you are" Varun smiled and told her and gave Neha a hug.He could smell her freshly shampooed hair.Her pale complexion looked even nicer without the hint of makeup.Her eyes almost twinkled on seeing him but held so many questions Neha knew she wouldnt meet him for for a long time now.Twenty four years of being friends would mean now...

Our Life is all about the Choices we make

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"It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities."Albus Dumbeldore made this statement in Harry Potter when he was sorted in Gryffindor. I always wondered whether is life all about chances or choices. Although destiny is something which binds us we always have a choice.Destiny always gives us a chance to make choices.We have to make a right one.Well to be more precise a choice that we think is right.We shape our life in that way.Our life is the product of choices we make Go back and start looking at your life.It has all been the result of your choices isnt it? Your job,your career,your friends,your life partner,your thoughts,your lifestyle..its all that you choose.Well if you think all these things arent what you chose,then probably you are not living your life.So make the decision now.Chose your life.Set your priorities. Imagine you are painter, painting a picture.You have all the colours and a brush.Now you just haveto choose a colo...

Right and Wrong?

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How do you define right and wrong? It’s a very subjective question and hence the answer may differ from person to person,situation to situation and place to place. Simple logic.Eating particular type of food could be tradional in one community and prohibited in another.Also right and wrong depends on choices you make and way you want to behave in life.Wearing a particular type of clothes could be also “right” or “wrong” depending on communities and places.Again time is an important factor too.Something which was considered wrong a few decades ago is now accepted in society. So the question is again..What is right? And What is wrong? In broad sense,what makes you happy is right and what makes you sad is wrongSo If you are doing something for the society but you are not happy doing it ,it is wrong.At the same time if you are doing something which makes you feel happy but the world may criticse you,you should go ahead cos that is right. So your n...

Live in Madness..live your life

Have you ever lived a day in madness? Complete madness? Without bothering what the world around you makes “judgement” about you?Have you done what you always wanted to do? Have you ever danced as if no one is watching you? Or sang even if you do not know the lyrics?Have you ever loved to the extent it hurts without expecting anything in return? Have you ever played a game knowing you would lose but still played because you enjoyed playing..perhaps even trying to win ? Life is a limited edition product.You do not know what is going to happen tomorrow.Do all the things you ever wanted to.Take time out to spend with your family.Spend time with the people who care for you.Watch your kids grow up.Say thank you to your spouse for his/her support.Tell your friends what they mean to you.Make them smile often.Tell them how good they look when they smile.Laugh a lot.Make others laugh.Work hard.Get fit.Sing your favorite song.Eat pani puri on a roadside stall.Send small notes to your friends simp...

Dreamss

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Stand up for yourself

One of the most difficult thing to do is being able to stand up for yourself.Trust me it is very difficult ,especially when all  the circumstances arent in your favour. Lets agree on the fact that all days are not rainy days.Once the season gets over ,it is always a time for the bright sunshine.What you have to do is to act on time .But till then,you have to stand up for yourself,not get knocked  down by your fears and have faith and patience.Everyone else might lose faith in you.You still have to stand by yourself.Take a stand and do not move your focus.Improve on your strengths,conquer your weakness.Whatevee it is..the sunshine will come,sooner or later..So go and buy some fancy shades..But stand up for yourself